If there's one thing I've noticed in these past months, it's that people really don't understand what some of the things they can do can really hurt people. Immobilize them, so to say. Every action has a reaction and it's sad that no one considers how another might feel; the consequences. I'm sure I am guilty of it, just as everyone is.

I'm tired of being told and/or hearing, "I don't deserve you". If I want to be with you, or be friends with you, if someone wants you around, then yes, you deserve me/them. You deserve it because they want it. And they deserve that. Can people not see how it does a 360? It's not about deserving someone. It's about how they make you feel when you're around them.

Really, I don't understand how someone could say that and know it'd break the other person's heart. How can you? I ask every person who has ever said that. How can you knowingly break someone's heart with those words? How can you hurt someone so much because you aren't okay with yourself. Because you are too insecure of yourself to possibly understand how someone can love you so much.

It completely boggles my mind how much people give up because they don't feel worthy. If you're that insecure, what are you doing getting into relationships with people? If you're that uncomfortable with being vulnerable, why are you taking when you aren't giving back? Why are you being so selfish?

How can you hurt someone so much? How?